Ben Affleck And Jennifer Lopez trying to keep their divorce civil…and attending the same event with her family – including Ben’s ex Jennifer Garner!

The trio headed out in Brentwood on Friday night to attend an event in the West Los Angeles area — and while we don’t know if they actually had a convo, we do know that Ben and J Lo only minutes arrived at a distance from each other.

We’re told Garner arrived first around 7pm… J Lo followed her five minutes later and Ben arrived shortly after.

All three appear to be in good spirits while out and about in the affluent West LA neighborhood… Affleck and Garner are seen strolling together.

While we don’t know if the three of them chatted over the course of the evening… Apparently Ben and Jenn G. chatted on the way in, but given the fractured nature of their relationship, it’s less likely that Bennifer met up for a chat .

As you know…J Lo filed for divorce from Ben in August – without a lawyer. The two do not have a marriage and have worked together on several projects during their marriage, so the separation will be complicated.

Laura Water – the disso queen – is mediate the divorce … just like she got Affleck and Garner’s back in 2018.

After the breakup, Lopez told the comedian Nikki Glaser that being in a relationship shouldn’t define them…and. She looks forward to being alone.